As we walked into the tempanyki restaurant I promised my husband Jeff that I would not mention to a soul that it was his birthday. At this particular restaurant the staff likes to come over to your table and sing HAPPY BIRTHDAY (with drums, nonetheless) when they catch wind of these type of celebrations. Which my reserved husband does not enjoy at all.
Food is prepared benihana-style, which means you're seated at large tables with other diners. Strangers. Sometimes they become friends by the end of the meal. Other times they remain strangers.
This evening we quickly knew that our fellow diners were friends. Drinks were ordered, soup was slurped and soon we were watching our talented chef juggle knives while building onion volcanoes and stir-frying calamari cubes.
Conversation was lively, spiked with laughter and lubricated with cocktails when our waitress asked the all-important question:
Is anyone celebrating a birthday tonight?
Jeff shot me "the look", which was caught by the friendly lady sitting next to Jeff and before you could blink, the cat was out of the bag. Everyone at our table knew it was my quiet, attention-dodging husband's birthday!
Our new friends, who obviously felt like part of our family now, asked the question:
"How old are you today, Jeff?"
I actually like this question because the answer always astounds people. This simple question quickly can turn into a quiz show.
So I said "guess".
First guess: 45. Higher, I said. 50? Nope. One of our new friends shaked his head left to right and said he certainly couldn't be 55???? Nope, I quipped and stuck two thumbs up to indicate go even higher.
By now the whole table was looking at Jeff like he was some sort of circus exhibit. He really does look 45. And, I just told them that he was even older than their new guess of 60.
Jeff's real age? 63. But really, he looks at least 15 years younger.
Jeff always says that he looks younger because he married a younger woman. 13 years younger, to be exact.
I just hope that I look half as good at 63 as Jeff does today!

